Stress management strategy #3: Adapt to the stressor

Stress management strategy #3: Adapt to the stressor

If you can’t change the stressor, change yourself.  You can adapt to stressful situations and regain your sense of control by changing your expectations and attitude.

  • Reframe problems.  Try to view stressful situations from a more positive perspective.  Rather than fuming about a traffic jam, look at it as an opportunity to pause and regroup, listen to your favorite radio station, or enjoy some alone time.
  • Look at the big picture.  Take perspective of the stressful situation.  Ask yourself how important it will be in the long run.  Will it matter in a month?  A year?  Is it really worth getting upset over?  If the answer is no, focus your time and energy elsewhere.
  • Adjust your standards. Perfectionism is a major source of avoidable stress.  Stop setting yourself up for failure by demanding perfection. Set reasonable standards for yourself and others, and learn to be okay with “good enough.”
  • Focus on the positive.  When stress is getting you down, take a moment to reflect on all the things you appreciate in your life, including your own positive qualities and gifts.  This simple strategy can help you keep things in perspective.

Adjusting Your Attitude

How you think can have a profound effect on your emotional and physical well-being.  Each time you think a negative thought about yourself, your body reacts as if it were in the throes of a tension-filled situation.  If you see good things about yourself, you are more likely to feel good; the reverse is also true.  Eliminate words such as “always,” “never,” “should,” and “must.”  These are telltale marks of self-defeating thoughts.

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